Bullyingkids

I just watched a show on T.V  about children being bullied in school.a twelve year old boy hangs himself in his closet at home,everyday  when he goes to school,he`s getting spat on .kicked,knocked down a flight a stairs.Why?Cause he`s different?Who is responsible for this?Are we as parents not teaching our children to respect other  people ?I BELIEVE that we`re not teaching our children to be loving and caring towards others no matter what they look like or how they act!We all are at fault because we`re not paying attention to what our children are doing!Have we lost out on what we know to teach our children to Love Jesus and to love each other?We need to help our children by treating them with love,so they can love others!

We need to teach our children to love Jesus,their parents,their selves and each other!If we start at home and quite putting the fault on other people and other things,we let them see and know that they are very  much wanted and needed and we want them to be kind to other s as they want to be treated! Than we won`t be seeing all of these children killing and hurting each other!

Bullying Is a Big Deal

Bullying is a big problem that affects lots of kids. Three-quarters of all kids say they have been bullied or teased. Being bullied can make kids feel really bad. The stress of dealing with bullies can make kids feel sick.

Bullying can make kids not want to play outside or go to school. It's hard to keep your mind on schoolwork when you're worried about how you're going to deal with the bully near your locker. Bullying bothers everyone — and not just the kids who are getting picked on. Bullying can make school a place of fear and can lead to more violence and more stress for everyone. TAKEN OFF WEB

Helping Your Child Deal With a Bully

With bodily changes and pressure from both school and from one's peers, growing up is tough. But it's even tougher if a child is bullied. Nowadays, there is a lot of press about the terrible effects of being bullied and how some kids have attributed this to why they have become angry, violent or perpetrators of school shootings. As a parent, it's important to help your child if you think he is being bullied. Here are a few things that you can do:

Give him or her unconditional love. Stand behind your children 100 percent and let them know that they are safe in their family and should expect to be safe in school and in the world.

Find out the circumstances of the bullying and what exactly transpired. That way you may be able to pinpoint how your child could have avoided being bullied. For example, walking away or avoiding the bully could help … especially if your child is with a friend or in a public place. Empower your child to use his smarts and common sense to avoid being bullied and not putting himself in situations where he might get bullied. Do not tell your child that it is his fault he is being bullied.

Talk to your child about being with friends and knowing which friends he can count on. Encourage your child to cultivate these positive relationships and not to hang out with kids who make him feel badly about himself.

If the bullying is taking place at school, find a teacher or other trusted adult in the school to talk to about the situation. This can be helpful, especially if there is a particular child that is bullying your child. Although your child may not want you to get involved, if your child's safety is at risk, then you must bring it to the attention of the authorities at school if the bullying is taking place on school property.

Find like-minded parents to talk to the school if other children are being bullied, too. There are many speakers who go to schools to talk to parents and children about preventing bullying and how to handle bullying behavior.

Chat it up with other parents of kids, preteens or teens to see how they're dealing.